Hospital Asked Me for a Donation After Surgery — Is That Okay?

Imagine going home after surgery, only to get a letter from the hospital asking you to donate money. Would you find that strange?

That's exactly what happened to one patient who wrote to MarketWatch's advice column, The Moneyist. After spending three days in the hospital for a gallbladder removal, they received a letter asking if they had a favorite caregiver — and if they'd like to make a financial contribution (a donation, meaning giving money for free) in that person's honor.

The patient was shocked and asked: *Is this normal or ethical?*

Why do hospitals do this?

Hospitals often need money to operate, and many use a strategy called "grateful patient" fundraising. The idea is simple: after you've been treated, you may feel thankful enough to give a donation. This isn't unusual — schools, colleges, theaters, and charities all ask former "customers" for money too.

Key facts to understand:

• The request came after the patient went home, not while they were sick and vulnerable in a hospital bed — which is considered more polite.
• A letter is gentler than a phone call, which puts you on the spot.
• Donating is completely optional — you can say yes, say no, or simply ignore it.

A neurologist named Michelle Burack wrote that her hospital began sending fundraising letters based on which doctor patients had visited. She felt this broke the trust between doctor and patient and could make people feel pressured to give out of gratitude — or fear that saying "no" might affect their care.

Research backs up these concerns:

• A 2020 study of over 500 adults found fewer than half approved of doctors sharing patients' names with fundraising staff.
• Only 10% supported hospitals checking patients' wealth to find potential donors.

Asking patients for donations isn't necessarily wrong — but many people find it uncomfortable, especially when they're recovering. The advice? Don't take it personally. You're just one name on a long list. If it bothers you, throw the letter away and move on.

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