Grieving Mom Asks: Sell My New House to Move Back Home After Son's Death?

A widow weighs whether to sell her new home and return to the house where she raised her kids and last lived with her late son.

## A Heartbreaking Money Decision

A mother who recently lost her son is facing a difficult choice: should she sell the new house she bought last September and move back to her old home — the one filled with precious memories?

She wrote to "The Moneyist," a personal-finance advice column, looking for guidance. Her story shows how money decisions are often about emotions, not just numbers.

### Her Situation

Here are the key facts about her two homes:

Old home: Mortgage (a loan used to buy a house) of $250,000 at a low 3.25% interest rate (the yearly cost of borrowing). She has about $360,000 in equity (the part of the home's value she actually owns, after the loan).
New home: Mortgage of $499,000 at a higher 5.75% interest rate.
The old house has a pool, bigger yard, and her best friend lives nearby.

Moving back would mean a lower monthly payment and lower interest — a real financial win.

### The Tax Angle

She also mentions the $250,000 capital-gains exclusion. In simple terms: when you sell a home for more than you paid, the profit is called a "capital gain." Normally that profit is taxed, but the government lets you avoid tax on up to $250,000 of profit if it was your main home. She wants to use this benefit before she loses eligibility.

### The Cost of Moving

The advice column warns that selling so soon isn't cheap. Expect to pay about 8% of the sale price — roughly $40,000 — in costs like:

Realtor commissions (fees paid to the agent who sells the home)
Attorney and title fees
Closing costs (final paperwork charges)

The good news: her savings on the cheaper mortgage could make up that $40,000 in just a year or two.

### The Bottom Line

The columnist's advice was gentle: this is an emotional decision, and that's okay. Sometimes spending money to follow your heart is worth it. He suggested she talk to a real-estate agent for exact numbers — and consider therapy to help with her grief — before deciding.

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